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Our own negative thoughts sabotage our dreams before it is given a chance to take flight

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Pretoria Life Coach – Suyan Budhoo

If you feel at times that you are leading a double life, acting as one person and wanting to be another, you are not alone. So often the person we really are, and the person the world sees are two different people. We fantasize about having jobs such as a painter, instead we choose the traditional jobs such as teaching or medicine.

We think about what others may say if we choose to follow our dreams. More than outsiders, our own negative thoughts sabotage our dreams before it is given a chance to take flight.

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Life Coaching DurbanSuyan Budhoo

Man is by nature complex, he is capable of moulding his life the way he wants to. Unlike animals, whose only mission is to survive, man has been blessed with the ability to live beyond mere survival. Man has been given emotions, intuitions and feelings all to be used and nurtured.

We are afraid to choose our own happiness for the fear of causing others pain. If you are happy, you can only cause more happiness to others. Fear not where the money will come from to support your family, because when you follow your passion, the money shall and must follow. People often thrive beyond expectation once they pay heed to their souls calling.

As Mahatma Gandhi said “ To believe in something and not to live it, is dishonest”. I believe there is good in the world. We want our partners and children to be honest with us and yet we live our entire lives being dishonest with ourselves.

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South African Life Coach DurbanSuyan Budhoo

When what we do and what we believe in is in disunion, a number of evils set in, in our health, relationships and even our finances. When our mind, body and soul are all in sync, we enjoy good health, brilliant relationships and an abundance in every sphere of our lives.

If you are still living a dualistic life, still looking for meaning and trying to find your passion and it seems like the hardship will never end, do not despair. Suffering and hardship is necessary for it is only through own experiences that we grow. We cannot appreciate success until we’ve known failure. Embrace those challenges, learn from them and move on. When you move on from being who the world thinks you are, to being who you really are, then only will you know true happiness and peace. Read More Articles like this at http://www.successfocus.co.za

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Despite doing your daily affirmations, positive self-talk and mind power exercises

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Mind Power Exercise

I don’t know about you but I feel like I’m being bombarded with self-development and wealth building information from every direction. But what do you when, despite doing your daily affirmations, positive self-talk and mind power exercises, nothing seems to be taking you closer to the life of your dreams, as they promised in the dvd’s.

Do you just give up, or do you persist? Could you have been wrong for buying into all the hype? I have visited this question many times during my lifetime and this is what I came up with. Nothing stays the same. A simple example, we may travel the same route daily, but we never see the same cars as we saw the previous day. We need to accept that change is the only constant. As we adapt our driving to different conditions so too must we adapt our lives to different circumstances that we are faced with.

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In order to face all the spin balls and googlies on a daily basis, there are a few things that can help us stay in the game.

Always expect better days, as I’ve said before nothing stays the same, so if you are having a bad day, chin up, tomorrow can only get better.

A smile can brighten up not only your day, but the other persons day as well, it costs you nothing and yet you are wealthier for sharing it.

Stay positive, if you are going to think, why not think good thoughts. Stress has never solved anything, infact it robs you of your ability to think clearly when there maybe a solution closer than you think.

I am sure you have heard that what you focus on, is what you receive. Instead of focusing on having a successful business or finding a perfect job, you worry about whether you will make it in business or if you will ever find that perfect job. That is why despite, doing all your affirmations and mind-power exercises you are not manifesting the expected results.

In all the self–development courses that I have attended, very few actually speak about relaxing and staying calm whilst you are trying to attract that which you want.

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Self Development Course Pretoria

Unless you can remain calm, you are not going to be able to manifest the results that you want. Our minds can be restless and can rob us of the peace that we deserve. It can make us feel insecure and incapable, if we let it, however once you learn to control that negative chatter that creeps in now and again, you will achieve all that you deserve.

My advice to you, when nothing seems to be going your way, persist… http://www.successfocus.co.za

Every business requires that Management plays a critical role in ensuring businesses achieve

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Every business requires that Management plays a critical role in ensuring businesses achieve strategic effectiveness by developing this resource.  At Success Focus we will enable HR consultants and managers to become knowledgeable on a practical level.  Our courses incorporate a module on Labour Law.

Our courses include:

  • The importance of the HR roles and functions within the organisation, including recruitment and selection, training and development, performance management, compliance with legislation and effective management of employee relations.
  • Coaching for peek performance.
  • Approaches to manpower planning.
  • Identify and recognise accomplishments.
  • Fair practise and diverse workforce management practices.
  • Overview on Basic Conditions and Employment Act (BCEA) and Labour Relations Act (LRA).
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After attending our courses you will walk away with:

  • An understanding of key levers available to Managers;
  • Knowledge of relevant theories related to Human Resource management;
  • Understanding the importance of correct recruitment for staff retention and talent management.
  • Implementing performance management strategies.
  • Compliance with the LRA insofar as discipline and dismissals are concerned.
  • Implementing effective people acquisition strategies.

Our courses will benefit:

  • Newly appointed HR managers
  • HR Practitioners
  • HR Officials
  • HR Supervisors
  • HR Administrators
  • Members and Staff of SMME’s

For information on these and other training events, contact us on info@successfocus.co.za

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Now that you know how awesome you are

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Johannesburg based Life Coach

Of all the species in the world you were born a human being. According to science and religion, this is the highest known species yet. Now that you know how awesome you are, what are you going to do about it?

How often do we just let life happen to us, without any idea of where we would like to end up. Knowing that you are the highest species on earth shouldn’t you now be alive to the fact that your life and time is worth so much more. Unlike in the past when men were laughed upon for having “impossible” and “unreasonable” dreams, people are now encouraged to be different.

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Be an original they say, an original is worth more than a fake. When you live each day with passion you appreciate yourself and others more. You tend to fill your days with the things you love instead of being robbed of your precious time by insignificant issues. Life seems more colourful and full of adventure. Being grateful for each day, you are rewarded with only more to be grateful. Sharing your appreciation for life, brings with it an abundance of life, friends, prosperity and happiness.

Nothing is impossible and the moon seems too low for where you want to go. This passion for life is what will get you through those days when self-doubt and fear starts to creep in. Your realisation of how great you are can actually push you towards that big scary dream that you have,  Impossible is a myth, do not believe in it.Believe only in your dream, in your ability to turn it into reality and the reason why you deserve it.

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Suyan Budhoo – The Life Coach and Motivational Speaker South Africa

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Life CoachSuyan Budhoo

I am a combination of a painful past, a great present and an even greater future.   I am a mother of two teenagers with life experience beyond my years. I am a firm believer of the past not having much influence on who we are now and who we are capable of becoming, therefore I choose not to dwell on my history.

I have worked in the legal environment in excess of 10 years with experience in corporate law in the private and public sector. In law we are usually expected to find solutions to every problem, I therefore believe that becoming a coach was a natural progression for me. Knowing business culture definitely gives me an edge when it comes to life coaching executives and project coaching. That being said I believe that every person is unique and has their own way in which they accept and process information. I combine my experience in the legal field with my skills and tools as a coach to help my clients achieve their goals as ceo’s, directors and managers quicker and more efficiently.

Spiritual is what we become as a result of our experiences on the inside, and it is definitely not interchangeable with the word religion, as religion is what comes from the outside.   As a spiritual coach I choose to believe that greatness lies within each and every human being.   I live by the maxim that “if faith in ourselves had been more extensively taught and practised, I am sure a very large portion of the evils and miseries that we have would have vanished.” My aim therefore is to see every individual achieve their highest potential.

By virtue of the fact that we are human we have relationships, some fail to make it into our present and we cannot live without others. There are people in this world that will not like you no matter what you do, yet there are others who would love you despite all your imperfections. Sometimes we do not know who we are, yet we expect others to understand us, we place unfair expectations on others and forget to check if we are meeting those expectations ourselves. I recently came across this quote by Charles F Glassman “Before you discover your soulmate you must first discover your soul” this definitely resonates with who I am.

Due to all the failures and tragedies that I personally experienced and overcame I am now on a path to help others overcome the challenges they are experiencing. I believe that my purpose on earth is to bring about a sense of pride, fulfilment and possibility to everyone I have the good fortune of meeting. Through my writing, public speaking and coaching I wish to advocate the message that anything is possible, all you have to do is BELIEVE.

Suyan Budhoo
Comensa Certified
Life Coach and Business Coach Pretoria

Dedicated to those who have failed a grade or an exam and are feeling ashamed or angry

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Success Focus Pty LtdStudent Scholar Coach

After making you, God broke the mould, that is how special you are. Todays piece is dedicated to those who have failed a grade or an exam and are feeling ashamed or angry to go back to school or try again. I realise that it cannot be easy to face those same students that made fun of you last year or to go back to a grade when all your friends have moved on. Yes, it is hard, but nobody said life was going to be easy.

Someone said “fail as early as possible”, I never understood that but I believe I do now. Some people sail through their schooling years with ease and sometimes through University too. They do not know what it means to go through the pain that comes with failing early on in life. These very people that did so well early on life, did not have the opportunity to build up their strength. For those who failed early on in life, they have become stronger and possess that courage and perseverance it takes to handle any challenge that they may face. Failing early in life is actually beneficial to the soul, it equips you with all the skills you will need to overcome the obstacles you will face at a later stage.

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A learned man was once asked by a disciple “Sir what is worse than losing everything?” the learned man responded “ It is worse to lose hope that you will regain everything again”. This is the essence of life, never give up hope. After winter comes summer, and the trees go from bare and lifeless to green. Nature is imparting knowledge to you, look and listen. You are now in the winter of your life, and just as the seasons change your life too will change. All you have to do is remain calm and never give up on yourself.

After every storm there is a rainbow, but without the storm you will never see the rainbow. Remain open to challenges, as these challenges can turn into opportunities for you to become a stronger. Start to look for the good in every situation, and you will and must find it.

Suyan Budhoo
Comensa Certified
Scholar-Student Coach and Motivational Speaker Pretoria

Having thousands of friends on facebook can never compensate

Why is it that so many people struggle to find and maintain harmonious relationships, and choose to be single instead? Whatever the reason, neither Science nor Religion dictates that man should live his life alone, infact both promote the union of marriage.

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Relationship Coach South Africa

At the rate the world is moving, finding time for communication or anything that does not include a technical gizmo can be a challenge. You would think that with Google and Wikipedia finding the solution to all our problems would be simpler and faster.  I have realised that knowledge alone doesn’t make you a better person, it is what you do with that knowledge that makes a difference.

Experience has taught me that mastering micro-expressions or personality types in theory means nothing if you do not take the time to interact with people on a humane level.  The only way you can do this is by communicating, so for those people who believe that they can make do with social media, they are sorely mistaken.

Having thousands of friends on facebook can never compensate for one real life friend.  Someone to share your innermost fears with, to act crazy with or cry with when your dog dies.  And that is the reality of life.  No matter how far we travel in the technical world it cannot compensate for our emotional needs which everybody has by virtue of being human.

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According to Hinduism there are 4 primary reasons why people should get married, i.e to fulfil their dharma (duty) , artha (possessions), kama (physical desires) and moksha (ultimate spiritual release) together.  It may be true that one or other pursuits can be obtained as a single person, but in order to live a complete life Hinduism encourages marriage.

In Christianity marriage is regarded as Holy, Jesus Christ himself stated “that God had created mankind as male and female and that in marriage the two will become one flesh.  So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate”

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Marriages that last a lifetime need more than just love to stand the test of time, and external influences. It requires a deep understanding of ones self, values and goals before you can understand a spouse.  If your aspirations are towards finding a soul-mate, you must first discover your own soul.

Suyan Budhoo
Relationship Coach & President at Success Focus Pty Ltd

Life is forever changing, nothing remains the same

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Only The Person Wins, Who never give up

Yes life is hard, not just yours. Everyone has at sometime or the other been brought to their knees in pain, anguish, despair or fear. If you’ve lived long enough you are sure to have had some sort of “down time”. At the time it may have seemed like a dark cloud hovering over you as if it would never lift, but it did and you are still here reading this post.

When life throws us curve balls, it comes with no warnings or instructions on how to deal with it.  We are left to fumble our way through difficult, unexplored situations with little or no skills on how to deal with all “the stuff” that is thrown our way.

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A few years ago the highest cause of suicide was lost love, but today it’s debt. Life is forever changing, nothing remains the same.  If yesterday, you were unhappy, then who’s to say you can’t be wildly blissful today.  If yesterday you were jobless, who’s to say today you can’t receive a fantastic job offer. If yesterday you were hurting because you thought you lost the love of your life, who’s to say you can’t find your soulmate today.  As cliché as this may sound, after every storm there is a rainbow.

If, as you read this, you are going through a difficult time financially, a divorce, or your life as you know it is not going the way you would like it to, then take it from me, someone who had the misfortune to go through all of these disasters simultaneously, you are not alone, and this too will pass.  It’s not unusual to think that God is unfair or he has something against us being happy, I had those thoughts a few times and I’m sure I’m not alone.  But when you are mature enough and have seen some of the problems that people face, you cannot help but feel grateful for your problems too.  This may sound obscure to some, but in comparison to terminal cancer and being jobless or homeless, my problems seemed insignificant.

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I obviously still felt weighed down by my problems, except now I felt a lot luckier than most.  I believe this is what got me through those difficult days, knowing that there are people out there that still have the courage to face a new day without knowing where their next meal will come from or if this will be their last day.  If they could face such unsurmountable circumstances with grace then so could I.

During my most difficult days I was reminded of this quote “What is worse than losing everything, it is losing the faith that we can gain everything back.”  In those words lie the secret of overcoming any difficult situation.  Have faith that tomorrow, or next week or maybe next year things will look better, but never give up or lose that faith.  Your tears will be replaced by smiles, your lack by abundance and your pain by love.

Suyan Budhoo
President at SuccessFocus – The Life Coaching Company South Africa

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